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How To Tell What's Really
Going On In A Relationship
Advice By Mr. L. Rx
CHANGING LANES
Question: Mr. L. Rx, I never know
what is going on in a relationship. I
think things are going fine, then the
girl leaves me. Or I am worried and
there doesn't seem to be anything
wrong. How do you tell what is
really going on in a relationship?
Answer: If you want to know what
is going on in a relationship you
have to learn to observe motion.
There are only three basic motions
a person can exhibit with respect to
you. 1) Move toward you, 2) move
away from you, and 3) stay in the
same place with respect to you (no
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motion).
Now when I talk about motion
with respect to a man/woman
relationship I am talking about
motion towards you in many ways,
like:
1) physically (a women moves
closer to you, touches you, etc.)
2) mentally (agreement would be
a motion toward, disagreement a
motion away)
3) emotionally (liking you and
feeling comfortable would be a
motion toward and disliking you,
feeling uncomfortable with you
would be a motion away)
4) communicatively (wanting to talk
to you would be a motion toward,
not wanting to talk to you would be
a motion away).
These are the statistics that you
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