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ometimes, our biggest fear is one we
tell ourselves. We think we aren't good
enough, or smart enough, or strong
enough. We tell ourselves life is going to
chew us up and spit us out.
At the Youth Ranches, we want the kids
we serve to understand their true value!
Negative self-talk, as it is known in the
mental health field, is often a result of an
unsupportive environment rather than
actual personal failings.
When Talesha came to the Ranch, she
wasn't sure she had what it took to be
successful in the program.
"I thought the program was more
advanced than I could give," Talesha
recalled. "I thought I wasn't smart enough
to be here, and I wouldn't fit in."
Part of this doubt in herself was a result
of the environment Talesha came from.
At home, she was tasked with carrying
burdens no child should have to carry.
"I had to take on adult responsibilities
and actually go out and work and provide
for my family as my mother and father did,"
Talesha said.
The negative self-talk that Talesha
carried to the Ranch was quickly
challenged by positive affirmations from
everyone in her life. It gradually began
to shift something in her brain, showing
Talesha her true capabilities.
"I haven't been able to shift it by myself,"
Talesha said. "It has been my peers and my
support system around me that helped me
start seeing myself in a positive way."
Donald Ralph Cooke School Director of Education Dana Drawdy
(right) presents Talesha with the "Most Improved at Cooke School"
award at the 2026 Boys Ranch Awards Banquet.
A Positive Change
Talesha's Story
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