Issue link: https://read.dmtmag.com/i/183630
Da ting To REla ting Inner Game Advice By Mr. L. Rx CHANGING LANES Question: Mr. L. Rx, do you think it is a good idea to have a couple of stories lined up for the first few minutes of conversation when meeting women. Answer: Well, the answer is yes and no. Ultimately the skill you want to have when meeting people is just to be there and interact according to what is said – not with some preconceived idea of what you should say. Preconceived ideas and stories will work sometimes and not other times. You stand a much better chance of hitting a high percentage of success when you can simply be there, 36 dating to relating 1013 cl.indd 1 assess what is going on and respond accordingly. So from that viewpoint, the answer is no. But let's take a look at the "inner game" or internal motion aspects of the same situation. You know that I talk a lot about watching the motion of the person you are approaching and trying to meet. I continually talk about doing things which make that person move toward you and not doing those things which make them move away from you. october 2013 // WWW.CHANGINGLANESDIGITAL.COM 9/5/13 3:12 PM